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Unconditional love doesn’t mean to sacrifice what you want and need…

Unconditional love doesn’t mean to love someone more than you love yourself… to sacrifice what you want and need, let someone hurt, neglect, or abuse you. It doesn’t mean to accept unacceptable behavior. It doesn’t mean to put someone first … Continue reading

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If someone is unwilling to deal with their hurt or pain, we have to let go.

If someone is unwilling to deal with their hurt or pain, we have to let go. If they choose to remain guarded, not talk through things, be honest, or heal, we cannot make them or force them. Sometimes the pain … Continue reading

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Pain is our internal warning system that something is wrong.

No one likes to experience pain… but pain is our internal warning system that something is wrong. When we experience “pain” physically or emotionally, our psyche is relaying messages to us to FIX something, causing the pain. Feelings are our … Continue reading

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Why is it so difficult for some people to say the word “sorry”… It is so simple.

Why is it so difficult for some people to say the word “sorry”…  It is one of the most powerful words we have at our disposal, but one of the least frequently used in our vocabulary. It is a word that … Continue reading

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What screws up most relationships is the blame game…

What screws up most relationships is the blame game… even if you are right. By focusing on another you lose yourself. We spend so much time evaluating and trying to stop someone from doing something or acting the way they … Continue reading

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We always have a choice in any situation…

We always have a choice in any situation… We may believe we are a victim to it or even that we are the cause and it is our fault we are in it. We may believe there is no other … Continue reading

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Where do we find the balance between caring for someone and caring too much?

Where do we find the balance between caring for someone and caring too much? Somehow in our culture we have learned that self deprivation or self sacrifice is the “right” way and taking care of ourselves or putting ourselves first … Continue reading

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