We are creatures of habit, and often don’t realize how much… Familiarity breeds confidence, especially in relationships. We give “attraction” so much credibility, when often simply the other person resonates the same way you do. Your behaviors match, they fit… the way you communicate, fight, experience feelings, situations, love… This is great when it’s healthy, but toxic when dysfunctional. In dysfunctional situations the same resonance happens, except you interact in unhealthy ways, resulting in pain, hurt, suffering, push and pull. This often manifests in the “chase” game, of wanting what you can’t have, or the intense emotional energy created by rejecting each other. A magnetism we confuse as love. The way to true love, is by facing your feelings instead of confusing or blaming the other for them… It really is that simply. © jodihealy.com – if you like this please share, someone else may too 🙂
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